The Prodigal Son, Addiction is a Family Disease

by Tammy Hardin on May 10, 2011

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Do YOU Want to Get Well?

by Tammy Hardin on September 27, 2010

Well Duh????  How many times have  I asked the confronting question "Do you want to get well?" and people look at me like I was an idiot but the truth is most people really don't want to get well.  Most of us want our circumstances to change or we want to vent, piss moan whine, etc. or we want people to feel sorry for us so we can be martyrs or we want things to magically change without any effort, but WELL?  Really? 
 

In John 5:6 – 8 (NIV) Jesus begins a conversation with a man that is sitting by the "healing" pool at Bethesda.  The man has had someone bring him there daily for years, I have heard over 30 years……"When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, "Do you want to get well?"  "Sir," the invalid replied, "I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me."  Then Jesus said to him, "Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.""

I see in this man what I have seen in myself and countless others, excuses as to why he can't get well.  Blaming other people and his circumstances for his condition.  Waiting on conditions to change in order to be well.  Jesus obviously didn't have any boundary or co-dependency issues, his response was TAKE ACTION!  "Get up! Pick up your mat and walk".

If you are taking no action you haven't really made a decision to make a change yet.  What does getting up, picking up your mat and walking mean in your life today?

Blessings~ Tammy 

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Are YOU On Satan’s Team Against You?

September 26, 2010

I had the most interesting coaching session with a client today that I want to share with you. As a precursor to what I am about to say my husband is a former football and baseball coach so a lot of analogies around this household involve sports. As I was talking to my client we [...]

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Does Your Phone Weight 5 Trillion Pounds?

June 27, 2010

It seems like I am constantly talking about the 5 trillion pound phone when meeting with early recovering addicts. You know when they offer phone calls as life lines on T.V. shows no one hesitates but when it is suggested as a way to save your life then it becomes a different story! Week after week [...]

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Trouble Sleeping?

June 22, 2010

Trouble sleeping? Recite the 23rd Psalm….   The Lord is my Sheperd (to feed, guide, and shield me), I shall not lack. He makes me lie down in (fresh, tender) green pastures; He leads me beside the still and restful waters. He refreshes and restores me life (my self); He leads me in the paths [...]

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What Are YOU Thinking About Today?

June 22, 2010

Whatever is true, noble, just, pure, lovely and good report……

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Satan’s Big Lie

May 31, 2010

All addicts know the insidious lies of  satan/addiction “this one time won’t hurt”, “just one”, “no one will know”, “I deserve”, etc.  I was watching Joyce Meyers this week and she was talking about Luke 4:4-6 which got me to reading, meditating and chewing it over.  The part that struck me was Luke 4:5-13.  In [...]

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Are You An Addiction Enabler?

April 26, 2010

This is a re-post that I thought you would all appreciate….. Denying a person you love a request for money isn’t easy, even if you know she’ll use it to buy drugs or alcohol. By learning how to say no, you are doing your part to help her face her addiction. By Krisha McCoy, MS [...]

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The Pitching Coach Lessons in Life

April 6, 2010

Life is so interesting to me. I hired a pitching coach to work my son this season and it reminded me so much of the clients I work with everyday. The first thing they discussed was where did my son want the ball to go? Now that seems like a stupid question, but is it? [...]

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Women Who Love Too Much

March 21, 2010

Do You Want To Get Well?

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